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Welcome to this month's journey of growth and connection! š±
Our focus is on community, and each week, Iāll be sharing valuable insights through
the ONA method to help cultivate the io leader within you.
The ONA methodāOrganize, Nourish, Authenticityāwill guide us as we explore how to be your best self and lead from the inside out.
Bible verse of the weekā¦
āBefore I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart: I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.ā Jeremiah 1:5
My intimate journalā¦
Growing up in Buenos Aires, my grandparents taught me so much of what I know today. My harabojee (grandad) introduced me to Eastern medicineāI remember acupuncture, herbal remedies, and moxibustion being a big part of my childhood. I was completely fascinated by that world. Looking back, I realize that these practices were his way of showing love, as well. Even now, when I visit him, he always asks if my body is well. As I write this, Iām remembering that he also sparked my first interest in Chinese characters, Korean art, and calligraphy.
My halmonee (grandmom) also had a huge influence on my approach to wellness. She always taught me ancient rituals, like washing my face with rice water and the importance of good skin care. She shared the benefits of different Korean herbs and foods, and whenever my period was approaching, sheād make me mugwort tea to ensure a smooth cycle. Even today, she checks in on me and cooks for me, passing down Korean traditions and rituals that have been in our family for generations.
Honoring my ancestors and their wisdom is deeply important to me. They knew so much about living in harmony with nature and maintaining balance in life, and I feel a strong connection to their knowledge. Iāve always been fascinated by the wisdom of different cultures, and growing up in such a mix has been fun to blend into my life. My morning routine includes oil-pulling and a shot of turmeric, ginger, and ground black pepper. This week, I started drinking a smoothie with mugwort, matcha, and ashwagandha for energy and a clear mind, and Iām also trying out tai-chi. Itās clear to me that our communities and ancestors shape our well-being. Iām grateful that my wellness practices are a blend of different cultures from the past, present, and future. Just today, my grandmother reminded me that tomorrow is Malbok (ė§ė³µ), the last hot day of the year, when we eat samgyetang (herbal chicken soup) to balance our bodyās elements. Iāve always been fascinated by Eastern and Western philosophy and the wisdom passed down through generations.
This week, we will delve into the second step of the ONA method: Nourish Mind & Body
the ONA method
NOURISH MIND & BODY
How The Human Connection Improves Healthcare by Anthony Orsini
TRANSCRIPT: āSit down, put your laptop aside, and just get to know your patient. Imagine that youāre the patient. Put yourself in their shoes, and your natural compassion will just flow. Because once you can connect as two relatable people, or as my mother would say, as best friends, thatās when medicine works its best. Now you might be asking, what can I do as a patient to make sure I get the very best healthcare? Well, the most important thing is to know that your healthcare is more important than any system. You control your healthcare because you can control the conversation. Itās okay to expect that personal connection with every doctor or nurse that you meet, even if you met them for the first time. So hereās the secret. Next time you go to the doctor or the hospital, unless itās an emergency, donāt talk medicine. Share something personal first. If your doctor seems preoccupied or rushed, thatās okay. not socializing superficially or social status but meaningful social bonding lights up our brains, it feels great. And we are rewarded and that is why we adapt. If youāve ever wanted to give up and you were tired and exhausted, your connection to something beyond yourself is why you changed, why you adapted.ā
Iāve been thinking this weekā¦
How communities affect mind and body. Lately, there have been a lot of articles referring to the benefits of being socially connected. Some of these benefits include promoting mental health, encouraging healthy lifestyle choices, boosting the immune system, reducing stress, andāwhat I want to focus onābuilding emotional intelligence.
Nowadays, being a good leader is not like in the past where the strongest of the tribe was the leader. Now, it's a holistic approach, developing empathy. Creating a safe place, and the empathy starts when vulnerability is possible. In other words, when there is trust. For an organization or relationship to thrive, we must start to understand different emotions and perspectives. This understanding creates room for conflict resolution. Learning to handle disagreements constructively enhances emotional and mental resilience.
A supportive community provides encouragement and motivation to pursue personal and professional goals. And most importantly, it celebrates milestones! Often, we donāt share much because we donāt want to be targets, but in a good community, we are happy at heart. In this way, I want to redefine leadership. As io leaders, we need to build this safe place. And, of course, embrace a healthy lifestyle.
To summarize, I want to end with this quote by Brian Tracy: āBecome the kind of leader that people would follow voluntarily, even if you had no title or position.ā
My challenge to you this weekā¦
ā¦think about how your communities impact your mental and physical well-being. Are they providing the support, encouragement, and safe space you need to grow personally and professionally? Are there cultural practices or rituals that have been passed down through generations? How do these practices contribute to your sense of identity and belonging?
ONA Book Clubā¦
THE EMPATHY DIARIES: a memoir by Sherry Turkle.
āThese days, our technology treats us as though we were objects and we get in the habit of objectifying one another as bits of data, profiles viewed. But only shared vulnerability and human empathy allow us to truly understand one another. I discovered a connection between my early family life and my professional interest that brought my purpose into focus. Not treating people as objects and trying to forestall technologyās assault on empathy were personal for me.ā
I would love to read your pov and hear how these ideas resonate with you.
Let's learn and grow together!
Stay tuned every week for insights that empower you to become an io leader.
Looking forward to our journey together!
Best,
Stephanie.